‘I’d named my autistic son in my will – I didn’t realise that would only cause problems’ | Family finances

As parents to an autistic son, my husband and I found it hard to accept his diagnosis. Developmental milestones were missed, and the difference between Tristan and others became stark. It could not be ignored, denied or explained away – our beautiful son was profoundly autistic. Tristan was offered a place at a school for children … Read more

Sunscreen and snail slime: what skincare experts do – and don’t do – to their skin | Skincare

Looking after your skin used to seem so simple: for decades, a basic “cleanse, tone, moisturise” routine was seen as the gold standard. But the skincare industry has recently exploded with thousands of new products, while skincare influencers have been racking up millions of views with often bewildering (and conflicting) advice. The Guardian’s journalism is … Read more

‘Hitler’s hatred of the scientist had intensified. There was a price on his head’: the tragic story of Robert Einstein, Albert’s cousin | Life and style

Early on the morning of 3 August 1944, a unit of heavily armed German soldiers arrived at the Villa Il Focardo outside Florence. They didn’t knock. They didn’t ring the bell. They simply smashed through the front door, marched in and started shouting for the villa’s owner, Robert Einstein, cousin of the world-famous scientist Albert … Read more

‘This trick is incredibly risky for him’: Ankit Ghosh’s best phone picture | Photography

In a narrow lane in Kolkata, West Bengal, Ankit Ghosh paused for a moment to take this photo. Ghosh was among crowds attending Vijaya Dashami, the last day of the Durga Puja, a festival he describes as “cultural potpourri”. He says, “It’s celebrated all across India, but there is no other place to experience it better than West Bengal. As this … Read more

Blind date: ‘She called me a dork, which is what every man dreams of’ | Life and style

Kat on Matt What were you hoping for?Great food, a fun story and hopefully someone to explore London with. First impressions?Very friendly and warm. He’d also kindly saved the booth seat for me, which I appreciated. What did you talk about?Carbs. Copenhagen v London prices (I’m from Copenhagen). Beach holidays. Films we haven’t seen. Our … Read more

The truth about stress: from the benefits of the ‘good kind’ to the exercise that only makes it worse | Health & wellbeing

It’s all in the mind True (up to a point)The way stress manifests is very much bodily, centred around hormones such as cortisol and their effect on us. But this process is triggered by the brain (notably the amygdala and the hypothalamus) and the way our brains react to stress is often set in early … Read more