My teenage son is just horrid, I hate him. How can I cope with the disgusting feelings I’m having? | Parents and parenting

I have a 15-year-old son and he is at that typical dreadful teenager stage filled with attitude, disrespectful behaviour and is just horrid. Despite being his mother, I hate him. I can’t stand to be around him and because of this I’m suffering from depression. Being his mother is the absolute worst experience. How can … Read more

Dining across the divide: ‘He couldn’t see that we were actually disagreeing’ | Life and style

Clive, 56, Manchester Occupation Consultant engineer Voting record Mostly Lib Dem. “The last MP, a Tory, thought it was a good idea to send someone a picture of his knob, so I didn’t have much time for him” Amuse bouche Clive once competed in a 24-hour lawnmower race. “The engine blew up after five or six hours” Sheena, … Read more

‘The leaves fall off – but I think that’s normal’: the houseplants you just can’t kill | Houseplants

There is a good reason that we treat certain houseplants as the green wallpaper of our homes: the odd splash of water and they seem to rub along fine. These are the species that have proved, over many decades, that they are best adapted to surviving in a vast range of situations. Unfortunately, familiarity breeds … Read more

A moment that changed me: I used a pseudonym on a dating app – and started exploring my sexuality | Life and style

I’ve never been a good liar. I can trace it back to my early school days, where my excuses for unfinished homework were never convincing, or I’d guiltily double back on even the smallest of fibs. With a knowing look, my mother would say: “Georgina …” She instilled a reverence for the truth, which was … Read more

The ‘office siren’ is over: why gen Z are succumbing to dull workwear | Fashion

Only someone who has never truly experienced the existential dread that comes with holding down a soulless 9-to-5 would ever romanticize corporate life. And yet, this time last year, fashion influencers were doing just that. The “office siren” trend was all over TikTok and headlines in Vogue and InStyle. Sirens, we’re told, wore skintight pencil … Read more

I spent four decades not sleeping a wink – until a doctor took my insomnia seriously | Well actually

In February, I taught memoir writing at a conference in Mexico where the faculty is traditionally put up with local hosts. Mine was especially communicative in the months leading up to my arrival, going out of his way to indicate affordable rooftop bars, the finest locations to view murals, and general best practices for the … Read more