This is how we do it: ‘After mutual cancer diagnoses we didn’t have sex for five years. Then we discovered toys …’ | Sex

Jill, 76 If it hadn’t been for walking the dog, we would have stayed in bed for a fortnight. That first touch was such a turn-on for us both Seven years ago, and three decades into our relationship, I was diagnosed with stage 4 non-Hodgkin lymphoma, then bladder cancer, which resulted in urostomy surgery. I … Read more

Rizzle Kicks look back: ‘Because of how fast it went, we became delusional about how easy it was to get successful’ | Rizzle Kicks

Jordan Stephens (on left) and Harley Alexander-Sule of Rizzle Kicks, sitting on deckchairs on Brighton beach, UK, in 2011 and 2025Jordan Stephens (on left) and Harley Alexander-Sule of Rizzle Kicks in 2011 and 2025. Later photograph: Pål Hansen/The Guardian. Styling: Andie Redman. Grooming: Annabel Miller. Archive photograph: Finn Taylor/The Guardian Jordan Stephens and Harley Alexander-Sulé started … Read more

Blind date: ‘He was very handsome, with a great set of teeth and a bold look. I knew it would be a night to remember’ | Life and style

Lewis on Max What were you hoping for?To meet someone nice, and if it seems like there’s a mutual interest there, to try not to laugh it off, but go with it! First impressions?When the barman pointed Max to my table, I was quite happy. What did you talk about?Our dissociation with the wider queer … Read more

Thomasina Miers’ Sunday lunch of glazed ham hock with harissa lentils and praline sundae – recipes | Main course

Our neighbourhood farmers’ market comes every Sunday, and brings with it a stunning range of seasonal fruit and veg, affordable fish, good-quality meat with cheap cuts galore, plus cheeses, breads and much more. For me, going there and chatting to and supporting the stallholders and farmers (many of whom I have now known for years) … Read more

The Archers star Charles Collingwood: ‘The last lie I told? Darling, marvellous isn’t the word’ | Television

Born in Canada, Charles Collingwood, 81, studied at Rada. He began his career in repertory theatre and moved into children’s television. He later worked on the 90s quizshow Telly Addicts and in Inspector Morse and Midsomer Murders. He is best known for playing Brian Aldridge in BBC Radio 4 drama The Archers, and this year … Read more

Which brand makes the best plant milk? I tried 10 favourites, from oat to almond, to find out | Vegan food and drink

Plant milk is everywhere. Once a niche alternative, it now lines supermarket shelves in endless varieties – oat, almond, soya, hazelnut, coconut, rice, pea – and is often the product of choice in coffee shops. Whether for ethical, environmental or dietary reasons, more and more people are ditching dairy. But not all plant milks are … Read more