‘This trick is incredibly risky for him’: Ankit Ghosh’s best phone picture | Photography

In a narrow lane in Kolkata, West Bengal, Ankit Ghosh paused for a moment to take this photo. Ghosh was among crowds attending Vijaya Dashami, the last day of the Durga Puja, a festival he describes as “cultural potpourri”. He says, “It’s celebrated all across India, but there is no other place to experience it better than West Bengal. As this … Read more

Blind date: ‘She called me a dork, which is what every man dreams of’ | Life and style

Kat on Matt What were you hoping for?Great food, a fun story and hopefully someone to explore London with. First impressions?Very friendly and warm. He’d also kindly saved the booth seat for me, which I appreciated. What did you talk about?Carbs. Copenhagen v London prices (I’m from Copenhagen). Beach holidays. Films we haven’t seen. Our … Read more

The truth about stress: from the benefits of the ‘good kind’ to the exercise that only makes it worse | Health & wellbeing

It’s all in the mind True (up to a point)The way stress manifests is very much bodily, centred around hormones such as cortisol and their effect on us. But this process is triggered by the brain (notably the amygdala and the hypothalamus) and the way our brains react to stress is often set in early … Read more

You be the judge: My daughter pulled out of my birthday meal. Should she pay her share of the bill? | Life and style

The prosecution: Bill I know Rita struggles with anxiety, but she only gave us an hour’s notice that she wasn’t coming My youngest daughter, Rita, is late for everything and known as the unreliable one in our family. Recently, she was inconsiderate, and I feel she needs to learn that actions have consequences. I had booked dinner for … Read more