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My wife has decided she is done with sex. She hasn’t given a particular reason. I asked if there may be a deeper resentment about me – but she said not. I asked if she perhaps had feelings for other men – but she said not. She is in the later stages of menopause – … Read more

When Laura, a teacher from Manchester, first moved in with her now husband, money was, she said, “almost a non-topic”. They earned similar amounts, split the bills, were often both skint and “felt like equals navigating a fun but slightly precarious time together, with separate bank accounts”. Over time, however, this changed. When the couple … Read more

Allergy season is always rough, and it has only been getting worse. Warming global temperatures and an increasing number of extreme weather events have made the pollen season in North America 20 days longer than it was in 1990, according to one 2021 study. “Pollen seasons are effectively year-round in some parts of the country,” … Read more

Set a budget early Costs can spiral quickly when you’re planning for a big group and there are lots of ideas flying around. Agree on a realistic budget from the start that works for everyone, and stay within it. Bridesmaids or the best man often lead, but if you are not organising the event, do … Read more

What’s the difference between green and black cardamom, and when should I use pods or ground?“Cardamom is my favourite spice,” says Cynthia Shanmugalingam, chef/proprietor of Rambutan in London. “It smells like childhood puddings and sweets.” That’s not to say the papery pods filled with black seeds aren’t versatile, mind. Yes, cardamom can bring a “piney, … Read more

Every time I complete a professional project, the dominant emotion I feel is relief – relief that I didn’t fail, and that something I did was “good enough”. But do I appreciate my success or have pride in my achievement? Nope. I just move on to the next task. Relishing the accomplishment feels superfluous, because … Read more

Is this the world’s most macho introduction? On entering the garden behind the Butcher’s Tap and Grill in Marlow in Buckinghamshire, I’m engulfed in charcoal smoke. Through the fog I spy a countertop laden with slabs of raw meat – a leg of lamb here, a tomahawk steak there. And presiding over two enormous kamado … Read more

Ginny MacColl was 63 when she accepted her daughter’s challenge to complete a pull-up. It took nine months to nail it. Now, a decade on, MacColl can pump out 17 of them in a row. It’s hard to argue with her when she says: “You can get stronger with age.” MacColl has since competed three … Read more

Name: Naked dressing. Age: You could say the trend goes back to Genesis … The prog rockers at the peak of their pomp in the 1970s? Further back still, to the first book of the Bible – Adam and Eve, wandering round the garden, in the nuddy. Until disobedience, shame, fig leaves, etc? Yes – … Read more

One August evening in 1955, members of York Mountaineering Club had convened in the city’s Olde Starre Inne. They were, perhaps, lamenting the shortage of mountains (or indeed hills) in York, when club chair David Laughton turned up waving a copy of that month’s Dalesman magazine. It contained a challenge, issued by Bill Cowley, author … Read more